Monday, February 28, 2011

I Want Some Dancing Shoes!

Chase Brandon Guiling - 1 of
the 8 reasons I want to dance,
Great g'son #2
Back in the day as they say, approximately 35-40 years ago, we had a very active Jaycee/Jaycee Wives group in Bloomfield of which Ken & I were members along with many of our friends. We did/sponsored many community activities, probably the stellar one being the 4th of July fireworks display. These "bangers" were expensive, dangerous, & back then, our guys were the ones who stood on that hill across from our beautiful city park at the end of the day & set them off for the hundreds who flocked from all over the area for the display. 
 
We were younger & more carefree for the most part, raising our families, making a living, doing those things that life requires, but we did enjoy getting together & having a good time when the Jaycees would sponsor a fun activity. They would have dances at the country club, usually as a fund raiser, & I will never forget the first time we thought about going to one. I hadn't danced since high school, and not much then, since Ken couldn't go to the prom or other activities because he was from another town & already out of school. He asked me about attending, & being one not wanting to miss out on anything, I really wanted to be there; yet, I always felt guilty & embarrassed about dancing, didn't feel I was very good at it, (I'm still not great) & mom always thought going to dances was equated with sinfulness & I always relied on her to babysit. I couldn't lie even if I wanted to, because I knew Rhonda would gladly report that mom & dad went dancing at the country club!  The only thing mom has ever approved of at the cc is the swimming pool & that is if you purchased your sodas outside.

Ken & I decided to be brave, tell mom that the dance proceeds were going to the children's home (as I recall, I think that's the gospel)& that I sure did need the exercise & named a few people who were going that I thought might meet her approval (or at least their parents, including a couple of preachers), bought our jeans, cowboy hats, boots, & off we went. Well, Ken took to dancing like a duck to water. He thoroughly enjoyed it. I just love music, music, music as well as dancing, even though I'm a bit awkward. We really enjoyed those times together with these good folks & have some great memories. They made many contributions to our community. Now our children have taken over that task & are doing a great job. Not that we're not still out there, but, speaking for myself, not as often.

Yesterday morning at Trinity, we had a bluegrass group who provided our music comprised of Tony & Maggie Thorn, Dale & Cis Williams, & Eric Pendergrass. We have an up & coming young lady, Ashton White, who I think is about 6 years old & is under Maggie's tutelage, who sang "I'll Fly Away" along with Maggie & the congregation. They were over the top with 2 or 3 guitars, a bass & a banjo - you want to talk about some pickers for Jesus!  I just wanted to dance, dance, dance. I know now what people say when they talk about dancing in the spirit. Alas, I'm sure if I had done that, 911 would have had to have been called out, & I'm hoping they, too, were in church somewhere. I hope they were enjoying it as much as I was. Am I too childlike, overly emotional, etc.? I just wonder why we just all sit quietly in a pew when our spirits are speaking something else to us?  I know we have to have order in services & respect for those around us - no one wants chaos. I'm speaking of JOY,  the sheer JOY of thanking & praising God. 

He has given me many reasons to dance during my lifetime. Since I'm not quality dancing material & haven't had a dancing partner for several years, I'll save my "talent" for other times & places yet to come. As I've stated before, I'm fully convinced we'll dance before Him; what a beautiful sight to see - all those who were unable for whatever rhyme or reason to dance before Him & not have to worry whether or not someone will ask you to dance. All our dance cards will be maxed out when we fly away!   






2 comments:

Anonymous said...

This one was so good. Thank you for sharing your memories and making them come back to life for your readers.

Pauline said...

Wonderful story and as the song goes" I hope you dance".